Improve your Family - Be Effective Mother

BE EFFECTIVE MOTHER
Not hard to be an effective mother. The goal was nothing more to prepare children to face their future.
How long have you be a mother, and how much advice you get to later be applied? If so, how about some of these messages?
1. Give praise for good behavior
 "Why did my very naughty boy?" Maybe you often think or say. What if once in a while you stop to think and say so?
It will there is a season where the kids doing something naughty that can make you lose your patience, but instead just take it as a naughty child, why would you not try to do or say something that can make a child stop doing something naughty and doing other things that can make your compliment?
2. Find time for yourself
How often do you complain that they feel do not have enough time? If the note well, actually you could just spend some time around 30 minutes. True, only 30 minutes.
Use only a 30 minute time to do something that can make you feel much happier. For example, reading books, watching movies that can make you laugh, listening to music or whatever you prefer. Remember, a happy mother is much better able to assist children in realizing their happiness.
3. If it was hard for......
If you encounter a problem that you are quite complicated and difficult to overcome, meaning you do not need at that time also trying to cope. Try to stay away for a moment from the problem. Once you feel much calmer and ready to face it, you can surely finish it immediately.
4. Working together with husband
The presence of children has given a new touch to your married life with him. And there is a season where you and your husband have different views in the face of certain matters, including matters relating to children.
When dealing with problem children, you and your husband should be able to work together in finding a middle way in overcoming the existing differences of opinion between you and your husband. Why so? Do not forget, what do you do with her husband is an example which will continue to be applied by the child.
5. Spare time for children
Both the mother who was always home, or a mother who was busy with activities outside the home, you still need to spend some special time for children. Use a special time to hear each other and share the experience or playing with children.
6. Follow developments
 Being a mother does not mean outdated. For that you need to follow developments related to the everyday world that faced by children.
If you have difficulty, you can ask a teacher, mother of the child's friends, husbands or even directly to the child.
7. Child's level
When talking with children, keep your right eye the child's eye level. This will help you maintain the closeness of your relationship with him. Why? Given the high similarity of views, then the child will get the impression that he was well respected by his mother.
8. Remember the good things
Goodness what was once done by your mother? Try to apply it to children. For example, to provide hot tea and pastries in the afternoon, etc..
9. Show good attitude
Children will imitate what you do. So, try to say and do things properly, and avoiding all the words and bad attitudes.
10. Think of the child as a friend
 Thus you can learn along with him. These steps can you begin by reading to children. Make the most of your time together with him, while he was still a child.
11. Develop a hobby If the child sees you do something that makes you feel good, chances are your child will try to follow what you do, then trying to find his own hobby.
Familiarize early


The following list contains some things that are taught by an effective mother to her children.

• Manage money well. Only with a simple sentence in the store, to explain why you prefer to buy objects of A compared with B was meant to teach children to be clever in managing its funds.
• Fertilizer good character, through a variety of stories that contain various kinds of moral message.
• Apply a good habit. Valuing older people, say "please", "sorry", or shut your mouth when coughing and yawning, need to be socialized early.
• Thinking about other people, sometimes even putting the interests of others above your own interests also need to introduce, because eventually the child will need those skills.
• Physical activity, or sport. If a child is left with the children just sat quietly watching television, then these habits will remain applied until adulthood.
• Do not be exaggerated. Let other people vying for each other because they want to become a "better" than others. Think again, if you and your family really need to follow their customs? 

 

Improve Your Children - Keep Children from Negative Impact of Television

Keep Children From Negative Impact of Television

According to a study by researchers from the United States revealed that television was just nice to watch on the children with a range of a certain age. In children under the age of three years (toddlers), the negative impact of television was more pronounced. Proven television can reduce the ability to read, reading comprehensive, even the memory impairment in children. Toddlers who watch too much television will lose the opportunity to obtain a good stimulation for the growth of the process. Reasons, television was just handed a one-way stimulation.
Conversely, the positive impact of new television viewing on children clearly visible from three to five years of age. Because, in this age, their reading ability can be better by watching such a pattern.
The impact of blue light
Television emits blue light produced by the sun. But this is different blue rays with ultra violet light. Blue light did not make the eyes blink automatically. But worse, the blue light goes straight into the retina without the filter. The wavelength of light produced is 400-500nm and hence, potentially triggering the formation of free radicals and photochemistry in the retina of the eye injure children.
Ten years later when the children were adults, the damage caused by blue light looks very clear. Retina of the eye is no longer clear as healthy as childhood that has become well-functioning ability decreased.
What should parent do?
1. Give a time limit for watching television. When he could and when he had to stop watching television. For preschool children, the condition may be difficult because at that age children have started to argue. Try to make a collective agreement on their limits. Such as the type of impressions that he wanted and the amount of time watching. For toddlers, set the limit time, that is quite an hour a day. While for preschool age may watch television less than two hours a day.
2nd. Make the time that little is at once as a learning tool children. Sit down with your child and discuss the contents of display options.
3. Prepare activities alternative to the child no longer whining and get back to watch television.
4. Embed this family values are repeated so that children understand what should and should not be done so that children are more confident to face his friends.